I can tell, having Swedish husband is a kind of time and effort! I must adjust, adopt, and be with it. My hubby is a kind of person that if you want him to stop something, I must explain in full and 100% right explanations, it must be valid (for him) and it must be in both good intensions.
For instance, he was a changing smoker. But he stops it for my own sake too.
But one thing that I don’t know what to do to stop him is DRINKING!. He always drinks every weekend which I don’t really like. But as I asked advice about it, they said, let him drink at least only weekend not daily. That’s the only days that he could be relaxed from work. And also, he just drinks few bottles of beer and few glasses of hard drinks.
Well then, there are lots of things that I want my husband to stop it but of course I will not ask him to do it so since it’s only for my own happiness. I would never be selfish nor egoistic.