Sweet Saturday: two entries for this week

As usual sorry Jona for not posting my Sweet Saturday entry last week. Been stress this week due to some reasons but I'm free now and back to blogging world. I post my two entries this week.

Communication was last week topic. Communications is sometimes problem between me and hubby. As you know guys, we have different language and the fact that they're not English makes my side more difficult. Sometimes I could speak or say it in English but the problem is I couldn't say it in Swedish.

But thankfully, showing our love is never been a problem even if it's in English, tagalog or Swedish..hehehe. Action speak louder than words.

And this week is Fidelity. I had think twice how could I explain or understand fidelity but thanks Jona for putting the meaning.

For me, I don't have any twice think about the faithfulness of my husband. Sometimes I tried to make stories for me to think something about his loyalty but I couldn't find anything. I'm his one and only love as he said. I'm thankful for that...

On my part he's one and my only dear husband too. I always been loyal, faithful and thoughtful to my man. I never cheat to anybody and I would never do it to my husband.

We are celebrating our wedding anniversary on Sunday and as I always said, I will love him and be with him as long as he wants me. As we promised when we said I do " we will be together forever".

CC: Spoiled Brother

How is my husband as a brother? I could tell my husband is a good brother.

He’s a good brother for me because I saw it many times when we are on her sister’s house or when we meet his brother. His brother is living few hours’ drive from where we live so my husband makes sure that we visit his brother often. Sometimes he’s siblings treat him like a baby maybe because he’s the youngest.

When I asked his sister how was Lennart (my husband) when they were still kids, and my sister in law answered directly “spoiled from all of us”. I couldn’t believe he’s spoiled because I couldn’t see it myself.

But when I saw their pictures, I could see some things that I can think he was spoiled. My husband is not showy person to his family but he makes sure that he's always there when they need him. He's a good brother to his siblings.

CC: As a father

I don’t know how can be my husband as a father. We don’t have baby so I don’t know yet. But i'm pretty sure he could be a best and good father.

As an uncle, I know a little. My husband siblings are 3. One sister and one brother and my hubby is the youngest. He’s the baby among his siblings. When it comes to his nieces, he’s a kind of never forgetting the special days of their lives.

He’ll always make sure that he would greet his nieces on their special days. Giving gifts is not usual on their family. Greetings is their gifts every occasion.

This month one of my husband niece will be celebrating her birthday and I would not be surprise if my husband just call her and or maybe just a text.

My husband brother is still single, so my husband only has two nieces. J. Sometimes in a weekend, we bonding together. We eat in the restaurants or at home with my sister in law, playing billiard, bowling or even just setting in a park and have a chat.

I love my husband’s nieces. They are so calm and shy. They have their own family too. Therese is 25 and Kristina is 23.

Happy father’s day to all father.

CC: Youngest sibling/son

A son is Couple’s Corner topic for this week.

I’m sorry but I don’t know what kind of son is my husband.

When I met him 6 years ago, his parents passed away already. His daddy died a year before I met him and his mother died few months before I met him. So I didn’t meet any of them. I don’t know what kind of son he is to his parents. How wish I meet my in-laws…

But as I can see to their old pictures, they were so close. My husband is the youngest among 3 siblings. Seems that he was his father’s favorite. My husband always on teary eyes every time we talk about his father. When he first saw his father lying on the floor without breathing makes him very emotional every time we talk.

His mother found two days after she died. She was lying on the floor too.

I know him as a brother. That would be another couple’s corner topic. Good day.

CC: My husband

Last month topic’s on Couples Corner was all about mother as honored to all mothers. This week is of course father since its father’s day soon.

How could I describe my husband? Well only myself know what kind of husband he is. He’s not a perfect husband but he’s the answer of my perfect dream man. He’s kind of perfectionist in some way. He wants full answers and full explanations if he wants something.

There were lots of things that I didn’t know when we were still in Philippines. Directly I migrate here in Sweden and live with him, goodness I’m not even half of knowing him. His talkative (only with me), mahilig mag comment ng kung ano ano na minsan wala nang sense. Mahilig kumain (obvious naman diba), mahilig mag hot bath na minsan inaabot ng 4 hours sa bathroom. Kunsabagay bathing is his one way of realaxing from a heavy day at work. There are lots of things that I thought hindi siya ganon. Sometime funny, exciting pero it comes to the point na irritating na. Nakakainis na.Hahaha

But generally, he’s a good husband. Not romantic as some other I knew, but he’s romantic in his own way. Siguro ang magkaroon ng anak, ang isang bagay na lang na kulang sa buhay namin at complete and perfect na kami. Hayyyy Lord please!!!.

Happy CC couples!

my husband in Fort Santiago Manila 2006

CC: Sister/Friend

How am I as a sister/friend? This is the topic for couple’s corner this week.

Actually I left an off line messages to my siblings asking what kind of sister I am. But unfortunately I don’t get any reply…hehehe. Am I bad or what?

Anyway, I am a sister who did everything to help my siblings. I was working to support my sister and brother’s schooling. I helped them in a way that sometimes I forgot myself.

Helping them sometimes hurts me. I mean because maybe I’m spoiling them so much. Helping them doesn’t mean that I want them to help or pay me back. Sometimes simple thank you or appreciation would feel me very happy. But why sometimes it’s difficult to understand them? Or I might be thinking or wanting too much from them.

Being very far from my siblings doesn’t mean that I stop helping them. Not all their materialistic things but emotionally.

As a friend, I don’t really know. All I can say is, I can be your true friend if you’re true to me too. Sometimes, being me as a friend doesn’t matter anymore. I encountered (may times) a “friend” who just took advantage my kindness but at the end, I’m the “bad” one. I don’t know why.

I don’t really know what they mean. But to those who know Tejan and Shy, you better ask them what kind of friend I am. They are my friends since I came here in Sweden. Way back in Philippines, all they could say, I’m a good friend, thoughtful, helpful and very fun to be with.

My husband words to me are: as a sister and as a friend, I’m the best sister my siblings could ever have. Generous, thoughtful, and loving sister. As a friend: I can be your bestfriend. No one can be as nice friend as you. (That’s my husband’s words)…

I might be wrong describing me as a sister and a friend. But as I know myself, I am who I am… Take it or leave? Happy CC everyone.