How am I as a sister/friend? This is the topic for couple’s corner this week.
Actually I left an off line messages to my siblings asking what kind of sister I am. But unfortunately I don’t get any reply…hehehe. Am I bad or what?
Anyway, I am a sister who did everything to help my siblings. I was working to support my sister and brother’s schooling. I helped them in a way that sometimes I forgot myself.
Helping them sometimes hurts me. I mean because maybe I’m spoiling them so much. Helping them doesn’t mean that I want them to help or pay me back. Sometimes simple thank you or appreciation would feel me very happy. But why sometimes it’s difficult to understand them? Or I might be thinking or wanting too much from them.
Being very far from my siblings doesn’t mean that I stop helping them. Not all their materialistic things but emotionally.
As a friend, I don’t really know. All I can say is, I can be your true friend if you’re true to me too. Sometimes, being me as a friend doesn’t matter anymore. I encountered (may times) a “friend” who just took advantage my kindness but at the end, I’m the “bad” one. I don’t know why.
I don’t really know what they mean. But to those who know Tejan and Shy, you better ask them what kind of friend I am. They are my friends since I came here in Sweden. Way back in Philippines, all they could say, I’m a good friend, thoughtful, helpful and very fun to be with.
My husband words to me are: as a sister and as a friend, I’m the best sister my siblings could ever have. Generous, thoughtful, and loving sister. As a friend: I can be your bestfriend. No one can be as nice friend as you. (That’s my husband’s words)…
I might be wrong describing me as a sister and a friend. But as I know myself, I am who I am… Take it or leave? Happy CC everyone.